Everyone is attractive in their own way,  but not everyone knows how to make the most of the body they have been given by the creator.  Today we shall be discussing the practical type that will enhance your attractiveness in a love scenario. Understanding how to be attractive and applying understanding will greatly enhance your chances of finding and maintaining your lover.

Know your anatomical strength – True,  everyone of us is attractive in our own ways but not every part of our bodies is equally as attractive as we would want them to be.  It seems to me that to keep us from pride,  the creator purposely incorporated some deficiencies into our anatomy. Perhaps the biblical lucifer who was perfect in beauty and his fall to pride might have made the creator decide to limit perfection in man’s beauty. Be that as it may,  the start point of becoming attractive is to take an anatomical inventory of your body,  knowing what you already have in beauty and celebrating it gloriously.

Know your anatomical weakness – No matter how beautiful and handsome we claim to be, there is always an aspect of our anatomy that if given a divine option we would have loved to change. This range from our height,  our size,  face etc.  Our lack of comfort with these less glamorous parts of our bodies stems out of our personal opinion that they contribute in some ways to nor ugliness. Whether this opinion is accurate or not,  it is however a sociological fact that most human beings will struggle with accepting the beauty of some of their body parts in their lifetime.
Embrace and accept both your anatomical all strength and weaknesses – There’s something about a personal insecurity regarding our bodies that contribute to our ugliness.  When we become too self conscious of our anatomical deficiencies,  it robs us of our sense of beauty and self-confidence. On the other hand,  average looking people carry what they have and what they lack with an air of self-confidence looking more attractive than there timid counterparts who are better endowed.
As you will discover later,  self-confidence is a major component of attractiveness. What I have longed discovered is that there’s no universally accepted standard definition for beauty. The definition of beauty varies from one person to another. Your prayer shouldn’t be that God should change our bodies but that God should connect us with those individuals for whom we are their perfect definition of beauty.
Compensate for your anatomical weakness by dressing and  heaving appropriately – The purpose if fashion is to compensate for our anatomical deficiencies. Clothes are meant to give us a second shot at being beautiful, that is why those who do not know how to dress are committing Attractional always suicide. Add inappropriate behaviour to poor dress sense and you’re attraction all dead beyond redemption.  For instance,  if you’re fat,  putting on a tight clothing will make a mockery of your anatomy and if you’re slim, wearing a bogus dress is tantamount to ridiculing yourself.
In the final analysis, you don’t choose what you wear,  your body makes the choice.  Your garments are to be for glory and beauty.

Project your anatomical strengths responsibly – I am not advocating the use of your strength to dress provocatively by dressing half-naked.  No,  it is hardly cool to be in decently dressed/exposed,  it is antiquated in its orientation.  What we are advocating is adopting both fashion and posture that best projects your strength to those you interact with,  not to cause their faith to fail. Just about anyone who knows what to do can be attractive. Those who are so clear and ready to mingle must-have attractiveness a competence and those in relationship must keep being attractive in order not to arrive at the expiration date of their love lives.

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About Bamigboye Olayemi

Whatever you do or wherever you find yourself, try to make a difference, try to live a purposeful life by helping others in your own little way because that is all we should all aspire to do in this chaotic world that we find ourselves...we are here for all of us.
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