I think it is time to acquaint ourselves with certain perspectives on life because you are in that age bracket where such knowledge is very vital to your success in life. Soon enough you’ll be fixed firmly into matrimony. Most ladies dream of matrimonial conjugation and it is advisable to approach it with wisdom, may you not fall pray into the hands of the undeserving.
There are certain things that goes on in a man’s thought that I think you need to acquaint yourself with, this should give you a more rounded perspective in your relationship with one. This type of understanding is very essential in the quest for harmonious relationship.
So my homily to you today is that you place a premium/value on yourself, that you do not sell yourself short to any man. I have discovered that the male gender respects quality/value very well. We tend to accord more respect to ladies that we perceive as being a lady of value/worth. Don’t sell yourself cheap to get a man. It’s not going to worth it in the long run, but some women discover this truth in the short run.
Women are very wonderful creatures; they are uniquely and delicately made. By virtue of genetic and intrinsic properties, the woman is the cynosure of all eyes. Her visual aesthetics evoke appreciation. Don’t depreciate your worth young lady, it was given to you by the Supreme being. I have seen many young ladies emotionally co-habiting with a man who won’t love and adore them, I don’t need to remind you that you’re embarking on a risky emotional trip. He’ll rub your nose in shame in public. You were made to be cherished, don’t you drag your dignity, esteem into the mud.
The gospel truth here is that, a man cannot do without a woman (Wow, I just gave out the male specie’s long-kept secret! It’s our sub-rosa). That is why (if you’re a keen observer) he auto-gravitates towards the next woman (including his mother and sisters) in the event of a quarrel just to seek comfort.
So with this knowledge, I want you to make yourself invaluable. Make yourself rare in his estimation. He’ll praise you in the conclave of men, like the virtuous woman in Proverbs 31:28, he will call you blessed. As you rightly know men love to boast just about anything in exclusive assemblies, broadcasting their achievements, non achievements, networth and less-worth. You’ll be a major header on his vocally published balance sheet if you place a value on yourself. An invaluable woman makes a man the subject of secret envy (Prov 31:23).
I pray the Holy spirit will help your understanding in this matter and if you’ve sold yourself cheaply to any man, it’s time to retrace your steps and salvage what is left of your dignity.